Monday, June 2, 2014

A CRAB-tastic Day at the Beach

Yesterday was special for two reasons:  One……it was our check-in day at the beach, a day that we look forward to each year, which promises a week of fun and relaxation and lots of gallivanting fish adventures with Grandpa G.

Second, it was my daughter-in-law's birthday.  And, with both dates converging on the same day, you KNOW excitement had to be in the air!

My grandson and I had been secretly discussing (via Skype) just what type of cake I should make his mommy.  Here you see a modified version of my grandson's "idea".




Isn't it cute?

I could only hope that it would survive the trip without incident.

We really couldn't ask for a better travel day.  Great weather, and some entertaining breaks along the way.



And after picking up the keys, checking in to our beach rental, and unpacking the car, how could we resist heading down to the beach to check out those waves?

The tide was rolling in, and this  little guy had a blast jumping the waves…..although I will admit that one of those waves ended up jumping at us!


But that's all part of the fun…..right?


And…speaking of fun….it was soon time to head back for some dinner and the much-anticipated event:


Now there's a story behind that cake ( I'll bet that you aren't too surprised by that).

Several years ago, at this very same beach, we were relaxing under the canopy, enjoying the antics of a sand crab that kept popping its head up and peering at us.  At one point, my son thought it would be cute to play with it a bit.

Well…..that was a HUGE mistake.  The crab popped out of the sand, began scurrying across our beach blanket, and made a B-line right to an innocent victim, who was relaxing on a beach blanket, engrossed in her book. 

Needless to say, we were all quite shocked  and surprised to find the crab suddenly running up this poor girl's leg.

Who was that victim, you may ask?   My son's wife.  Don't worry…. he survived the experience.  But it's always been a memorable story, as you can well imagine.

Now, my grandson was only an infant at the time, but the story has been retold every year since, and he came up with the idea that I should make a cake that looked like his Mommy's leg with a crab running up it.

Don't you just love kids?  They put no limit on one's abilities.  But, I decided to forego the leg, and I'm fairly certain that was a wise decision on my part.



And no one appears to be disappointed.


Happy Birthday to Mommy!

Who knew that such a quirky event would be part of the celebration so many years later?

Here's the link to the past highlighting this family's reaction to the antics of that crab: http://gallivantinggeismom.blogspot.com/2011/06/fun-in-sand.html

But it's time to get out and enjoy the beach…….


Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Nuts over Raleigh

With my husband once again off on a business trip, it seemed the perfect opportunity to gallivant to Raleigh for a few days, to catch up on things with my childhood friend, who just so happens to be my aunt.

Growing up, I thought everyone had a playmate to enjoy at their grandma's house, so it would be with much excitement that I would anticipate the frequent visits on weekends throughout the year, and the summer vacations we would spend together.

It had been years since we had made the time to get together and catch up on life, and now seemed as good a time as any.  The price was right…..so why not?

My few days here have been relaxing as well as entertaining.

My mornings found me in the company of this little pal:


whose cute little face brought a chuckle to mine everyday.
Really…..how could it not?

I enjoyed my afternoon walks exploring some nearby sites


where one might think I was back in Europe, 


with charming shops enticing some window shopping


and surprises around nearly every corner.



And today's adventure into Raleigh offered a quick glimpse into the highlights of the city:

We walked through the Art Space


admiring the handiwork of many creative and talented artists.


And explored some sites along the historical streets:

We passed the Old Railroad station in town


The Briggs Building Hardware Store built in 1874


and the North Carolina State Capital building built in 1840:


And here is something new that I learned today:  not only was Andrew Johnson born nearby…


but his poor mother had the unfortunate circumstance of delivering him in the kitchen!  This story may warrant a little research on my part…..but that's for another day.

But here you spy the main attraction for our visit today:

The Giant Acorn



Every year since 1992, this Acorn is dropped on New Year's Eve as the clock winds down to midnight.

If you find that to be a bit odd, consider that North Carolina's Mount Olive drops a 3 1/2 foot pickle at midnight, while Morehead City lowers a Crab Pot.

But all of that excitement pales in comparison to Brasstown's celebration, where a live possum was lowered in a box at midnight. 

I don't know about you…but I'd say the possum adventure was, by far, truly nuts!!








Sunday, May 4, 2014

A Tea Time Celebration

There were delectable treats…

how about just one more?

Sweet confections you couldn't help but adore,


And shiny presents piled high on the floor.


Packages were wrapped with pink bows on top


It seemed like the fun would continue non-stop





and of course there was all of that bubble wrap to pop.



Each decorative gift offered some kind of surprise



like the painting by Grandma that bought tears to her eyes



or the hand made garter which this model surmised


belonged on the head and not one of the thighs!  

The ribbons were meticulously woven with thread

resulting in this glorious  adornment  for her head


an age old tradition for brides who will wed.

This group of young ladies, all dressed with flair


hosted a truly glorious affair

designed to honor this soon-to-be wed pair:


And it was Fabulous!


Relaxing at St. Emma's Monastery


Here I am, once again, with my traveling companion, Morena.

One of my daughters will soon be wed, and this weekend we honored her with a bridal shower.

But, since this celebration involved several family members driving in to town, we opted to find a place to stay rather than add to the commotion in one of the family homes.

So, we are at:  St. Emma's Monastery.



This is an absolutely fabulous B&B, run by Benedictine nuns.  You know you're welcome when the
voice at the other end of the phone says,  " We'll see you when you get home!"  Home….is here.

At first I was a bit concerned that the drive would be too much, but in the long run, this is the Perfect Place to relax and feel pampered.



And, to top it off, we only had to walk 50 feet to attend Mass this morning, which, after only 6 hours of sleep, was very much appreciated!



Fabulous!




Tuesday, April 1, 2014

Reflections on Israel

When my husband first announced that his business ventures would involve traveling to Israel, my first reaction was that of dread.

I worried for his safety while he was away.  Let's face it….the media does a great job of reporting alarming news when it comes to this part of the world.

After his second business visit without any issues, my husband was intent on my traveling with him on the next trip.

Now I'll admit…..many people would say that this was the opportunity of a lifetime.

How could I refuse?  Other than my close friends and family, most people couldn't understand my hesitancy.  What could be so terrible?  Visiting the Holy Land would be an awesome opportunity!

In retrospect, I can easily split these enthusiastic advisors into two groups:

First:  Those who had never even ventured out of the state, much less than the country………...going just about anywhere would probably be an exciting prospect for them.

Second:  the seasoned traveler who's family lives in a distant land, and they think nothing of venturing into worlds where I would never consider stepping foot into.

Travel to India?  No problem.

Take an African Safari?  Why not?

……….The more adventurous, the better.

Let's face it......although I may have had some exciting gallivanting adventures, certain events just sort of "happened" to me......I didn't go out looking for them.  I have absolutely no desire to see the Taj Mahal, or the Giant Pyramids.

If I want to see an elephant or a tiger.....I know how to drive to the zoo. I enjoy visiting parts of the world that are a bit different, but I don't care to wary too far from my comfort zone.  That's certainly my prerogative, right?

And I'll be quite honest here…..traveling to Israel was never a dream of mine.  Just the thought of being in close proximity to hostilities made me nervous.

Add to that an entirely different culture and a language that I could not even read, and I'd say that I was justified in my hesitance on making a decision.

But after being told that I had nothing to worry about, and that everyone spoke English, I opted to agree to my husband's invitation, and we purchased my ticket so that we would be flying on the same plane together, which certainly made the most sense.

Now don't think for one minute that my anxiety level decreased just because I purchased an airline ticket.

And, it probably didn't help when my mother asked me where we kept the wills…..

or when one of my friends (you know who you are) told me to stay out of public buildings and to never take public transportation.

But despite my apprehensions,  I was determined to make the most out of this trip, and I even went to Ollie's and bought a Frommer's book on Israel for $2.99.  After all, knowledge is power…..right?

Just a few days prior to leaving, I found myself in the local Apple Repair store, due to a sudden issue with my Macbook.  I explained to the young man in the store that I would be traveling to Israel and I wanted to avoid any issues with my travel computer.   He was able to assure me that all was well, and he wished me safe travels, to which I must have responded with some hesitancy.

He smiled at me and began to tell me how knew a young woman who had spent quite a bit of time in Israel over the past couple of  years and how she just loved it.

Oh....that's nice to know,  I said.

He then went on to tell me that he had been helping her to put together a presentation these last few weeks.

Was I interested in knowing the subject?

What could I say?  Of course I was interested.

He looked at me straight in the face and said,

"Five Reasons Not To Worry About Traveling to Israel."

I kid you not.  Now, I ask you, what are the chances of that happening?  I should probably have asked to see read it myself, but I will admit that I suddenly felt that my fears seemed to lessen after that conversation.

So just what did I learn on my travels to Israel?  I can't offer a list of reasons for or against travel, but I can share some observations that may help you in determining if this type of adventure is for you.

Observation #1: Religious History Abounds

The most compelling reason to visit this country is the fact that it is the Holy Land.

Where else can you walk on a mountain ridge knowing that you are standing on the same mountain that is referenced in the Old Testament?


Or look up from a valley to see the ancient walls of a city?


Stroll by an ancient well where a young woman named Mary would have drawn water for her household?



Or visit the land where Jesus walked and started his ministry?


Or even put your hands in the water where miracles took place?



Visit the village where Jesus' apostles lived, where archeologists have unearthed the original stones of the houses that date back more than 2000 years?


Or reflect upon His last days by relaxing in a garden of Olive trees


or walking along the very stones upon which He tread?


That certainly makes for a good argument, don't you agree?

Observation #2: Not all sight-seeing adventures are stress free

That being said, visiting many of these sites did involve facing the challenge of conditions which I found to be uncomfortable.  My uneasiness was partially due to my insecurities regarding the language, and knowing that my appearance confirmed that I was a Westerner, making me feel more vulnerable.

My most frightening moment occurred when we had just finished climbing a very steep road to the top of the Mount of Olives in search of the Chapel of the Ascension.

Our first clue that something was not quite right should have been the lack of tour busses.

The second should have been that we were obviously the only non-Arabs on the street.

And the taxi driver, who kept following us and asking if he could drive us to Bethlehem, should have been a fairly strong hint that we must have been the only suckers up on the mountain, or he would have found someone else to take him up on his offer.  (Not to mention that we knew that Bethlehem was off limits for travel.)

As I spotted the chapel and we headed towards it, we heard a familiar chant,  "That will be 5 shekels to enter", but we chose to ignore it this time.  As we got closer to this small, domed structure,  a very large, obviously irritated, man came running over, reached out his hand to stop us, and, quite impatiently said to us in a loud, firm voice, "Did you not hear me?  I said that it will cost 5 shekels each for you to enter!"

Believe me, there was no arguing at this point, so we apologized, said that we had changed our minds, and began a very quick jaunt, past the waiting taxi driver,  back down to the road that we had just climbed.



That experience was enough for us to call it a day!  So, we stopped at a local shop for a bottle of Israeli wine, and enjoyed the remainder of the afternoon relaxing outside on the B&B deck, admiring that beautiful view of the city.



Observation #3:  Israeli Wines are quite tasty.

Even when you aren't stressed.

Observation #4:  Driving can be challenging

Before one even leaves the airport, the big clue regarding driving conditions is the state of the rental car.  When Marty commented to the Avis dealer that the car was pretty much covered with dents, his response was "They all are like that."

And, once on the road, it is quite obvious why.  Although I am proud to announce that Marty returned our rental with out adding to the collection, although, come to think of it, it would have been pretty difficult to notice any additions.

Observation # 5:  The shortest distance between two cities is NOT advisable.

I had presumed that driving from Jerusalem to Nazareth would be relatively quick…..until I was told that the road linking the two cities runs right through the West Bank.  Enough said on that subject.

Observation # 6:  Money CAN buy happiness

While traveling along the highways, I was in urgent need of a bathroom several times during our drive.

Let me just say here that money can buy happiness.

3 shekels = sparkling clean bathrooms with hot water, soap and paper towels.

Free (gas stations) = enter at your own risk, bring tissues, and try not to touch any surfaces for lack of sanitation.   

When offered a towelette following a meal, I learned to politely accept the package, wait for the waiter to leave, then promptly stash it in my purse for future use.  Now that I knew what to expect regarding bathrooms, my plan was to be prepared!

Observation #7:  Surveillance is the norm

I had been assured that traveling through Israel was extremely safe and that there was no cause for concern.  As I sat in my hotel room, admiring the Mediterranean port of Haifa, I really didn't give much thought to the ships that I watched come and go.


Until I spotted a submarine, stealthily raising itself out of the water, then disappearing again into the sea.  Just for the record, it showed up about the same time on a daily basis.

It did not take long for me to notice the Israeli soldiers in full army gear, complete with high powered rifle slung over a shoulder, as I spotted several on my ventures through Haifa.  In addition, all public buildings had a security officer stationed at every door to inspect large bags and purses prior to entry.
Some might say that this is invasive;  however, I didn't mind the scrutiny in the least.  I felt much more comfortable knowing that extra measures were being taken to assure my safety.

In fact, I was just beginning to feel totally isolated from any type of harm being directed towards this country when I popped into a little shop in Haifa just prior to our leaving for Jerusalem.  The owner and I were having a delightful conversation when the conversation turned to Purim, a Jewish holiday celebrated every year at this time.  Apparently, the Palestinians in the Gaza Strip use this holiday as an opportunity to bombard Israel with missiles. 

Imagine my surprise when this woman gleefully announced that 60 missiles had been fired from the Gaza Strip into Israel that very day, and there had not been ONE fatality!  

Did I mention that they make good wine in Israel?

Observation #8:  The food was fabulous

I didn't post many photos of food on this last trip.  I had read that food photos were becoming annoying to most, so I decided to spare my friends from viewing them.

That was a foolish decision on my part as  I realized that I had let my "Foodie" friends down!  So sorry for the disappointment.  So, I'm going to post a few delights that I did photograph here, for your enjoyment.








Observation #9:  McDonald's is everywhere

Ok, I'll admit that is a lame observation.  And I, for one, would be the first to abhor the thought of entering one.

However, desperation led me through the doors, and  I soon learned that they make an excellent frozen coffee drink, which I liken to a coffee McFlurry, for only 12 shekels.  I could point to the sign on the wall, say small, and have a delightful refreshment within minutes.

Actually, this was my lunch on most days alone, as the meals in the restaurants were huge, and I felt uncomfortable entering places where English was not commonly spoken.


Observation # 10:  Be wary of "Great Deals" 

Do you remember my stories regarding the Arab shop owners in Jerusalem?  One after another, attempting to lure the tourist inside to take a look at their wares?

I soon learned the trick of ignoring them and just walking by.  But I couldn't help but smile when I watched one woman, part of a small group, making her way towards me from the opposite direction.  She was obviously an American, clutching her purse tightly, with both arms around her chest,  as she walked along through the commotion.

True to form, a shop owner popped out in front of her and asked if he could take her inside to show her more of his treasures.

She politely smiled, shook her head, and in the sweetest voice I've ever heard, said to him , "No, thank you………....we're just looking." And she continued on her way, sure to encounter the same question countless times along the way.

This woman was obviously wary of "great deals", but I couldn't help but wonder just how long the sweetness held out.

Now, here's a gem of a deal for you:


Spend so much money in the Notre Dame gift shop and you receive a free umbrella.


As Marty will tell you, it features Steeler's colors ( although I'm fairly certain that they are Papal colors….yellow and white),  a Jerusalem cross AND the Holy Land written on one of the panels.

And, it's made in China…..what a deal…..right?

We debated taking it, but the young lady behind the counter finally convinced us…..since it was free.

Unfortunately, the free umbrella did NOT fit  in either of our suitcases, so as we headed through to security at the airport, we were flagged for an extra inspection.  After being opened and closed, and examined with a security wand from inside out, the inspector closed it up, put it back in the package and told us that we would not be permitted to carry it onto the plane.  It needed to be checked in.

I told them not to worry about it….we would leave it behind.  They seemed surprised.

Marty then told them that it had been free anyway, and that it was their's for the taking.  We did not want to check it in, and it really did not mean that much to us anyway.  It was made in China.

The next thing we knew, the inspector slapped a red tag on it, handed the umbrella to Marty, and told him that he could try boarding with it.

No one asked him a thing, and as you can see, our prize made it home, safe and sound, as did we…so I suppose that we can chalk it up as a great deal.  What do you think?

Now, if you are at all interested, here is my advice regarding traveling to Jerusalem and Nazaraeth.

Tour groups are certainly the safe way to visit the Holy Land.  Unfortunately, you are always on someone else's time schedule, and that can be frustrating…..at least for me.

My advice would be to hire a private tour guide to show you around.  We saw many on our travels.  You have the advantage of an English speaking guide who escorts you from place to place, resulting in a much less hectic pace.  You do not have to drive the roads, and, most importantly, the guides know how to deal with the Arabs.