We all seem to have fond memories of a best friend from our childhood. If one is lucky, you grow up together, rejoice in the good times, and help each other through the bad. You graduate from high school, and you promise to remain BFF despite going separate ways in the world.
It's funny how the years can pass by with little or no communication, but one phone call or e-mail will restart that connection despite the miles that separate us. Our lives are far different, but it is obvious to those around us that we continue to share that bond: the excitement when we meet again, the exuberance in our voices as we share stories; the intense interest that we have in each other's lives.
And, that's how it was this morning, when Marty and I drove to Malvern to visit with Tammy who had spent the night at her brother Ted's home. He and his wife, Gail, welcomed us into their beautiful home nestled in the woods, where we shared a delightful breakfast, got caught up on family news, and enjoyed stories with many laughs. Although the time seemed way too brief, it felt like it was standing still while we were enjoying the moment.
"Enjoying the moment" is something that Tammy and I seem to be able to rekindle without effort. Perhaps the distance between us makes us realize how precious these minutes are. If you look closely at the photo, you will see a reflection of Marty who is happily taking our photo. Now, I ask you: How lucky am I to have a husband who appreciates this "best friend" as much as I?
Now THIS made me smile from ear to ear! So happy to see you and Tammy (AND Marty) having such fun together. (Malvern, PA..., near Philadelphia? That's where my Dad used to go on retreat.) You both look fabulous, BTW, which is no surprise to me. Can't wait to see Tam myself once out West. BFF is not easily accomplished, but you two have definitely done it. Wonderful!
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